October 05, 2022

3 successful ways to socialize

1. A “comfortable piece” that praises others

Everyone, including those with low status and those with a strong sense of inferiority, has something to be proud of. These “shines” that make them intoxicated may be very small, so small that only he himself knows it, even he himself. Didn’t find it.

These “comfortable little works” may be, such as good at making a delicious sweet and sour fish, good at folding various paper airplanes, and have a lot of research on folk stories and folk proverbs. If you compliment these little advantages, you will surely excite them.

You know, from the perspective of gaining popularity, it is more effective to praise small merits than to praise well-known merits.

Small things can make big articles. Concentrate on digging and praising others’ “comfortable little works”. Don’t look at the small ones. In fact, getting bigger in a small place is also a great social skill, and this skill is not guaranteed by many people.

If you have this set of skills, you can just build a mansion of popularity in the flat ground.

2. Remember the “random words” of others

Everyone’s words are not just golden rules, they are not loud and loud. Some words have been said, and soon, the speaker will forget it, or stop paying attention to it.

This kind of casual discourse is very useful. If you bring up what he said before at the right time, such as: “You said… I still remember it still.”

The other person will be very excited because of your attention, thinking that you are a careful person, a person who can do great things, and a person who cares about others very much.

If you not only remember other people’s free words, but also follow his free words, it will be more effective.

“Abandoned gold mines” can also extract brilliant gold! Pay attention to and remember the random words of others. It is actually “a pile of gold ore”. If mined properly, “human gold” will make you extremely rich. . Although the casual words of others are subtle, there is plenty to do.

3. Do something unexpected about others

The advertisement of a German bank is famous all over the world, and it says: You live your life, we take care of the details for you.

What is the detail? It is often the small thing people accidentally. It is said that after the release of this advertisement, the credibility of this bank has been greatly improved.

This is not the case for an organization. For people, those who pay great attention to details and those who can do other people’s accidental things in a timely manner will make people very at ease, can they be untrustworthy? Doing other people’s accidental things is a way of filling their own image. Important tricks.

A philosopher once said: Any details are of great significance. In this case, let’s do something unexpected by others. This is an important measure for meticulously crafting our own image. People will admire and admire you for it.