Some people like to make a variety of online friends, while others like to make friends in small circles. You may have very close friends, in front of them you can pour out your thoughts. There are some ordinary friends to accompany you to eat, drink and have fun.
But many adults, especially men, have difficulty developing new friendships or maintaining existing friendships. For one, time is limited, and friendship may give up your seat for other more important things, such as long hours of work, repairing the kitchen floor or taking care of elderly parents. Or you move to a new community and cannot meet your friends.
It really takes effort to develop friendship. But friendship is so important to your happiness, it is worth spending time and energy.
Here are some ways you can develop new friendships:
1. Take a walk with your pet. Find a famous dog park, talk to others about fun facts about your pet, or walk the dog together.
2. Fitness. Take a class at a local gym, go to a senior center or use community fitness facilities. Go for a walk with colleagues during lunch time.
Three, cook. Invite your acquaintances to have breakfast, lunch or dinner together.
4. Accept the invitation. When someone invites you to a dinner or social gathering, promise him. Don’t stop talking because you may not know everyone else or you may feel embarrassed at first. If you feel uncomfortable, you can leave at any time.
5. Be a volunteer. Hospitals, places of worship, museums, community centers and other organizations often need volunteers. You can keep in touch with other volunteers who share your interests.
Six, the same goal. Work hard with a group of people toward a goal, such as elections or cleanup of natural areas.
7. Join a hobby group. Look for a group with similar interests, like racing, music, gardening, books or crafts.
8. Back to school. Take college or community education courses and interact with like-minded people.
Nine, appeared in front of the porch. The front porch was once a social center for neighbors. If you don’t have a front porch, you can still sit in the front and have a cup of coffee or read a good book to make yourself visible.
You may not be able to immediately become friends with the person you meet for the first time. But the seeds of lasting friendship can be sown.